A popular idea running through many churches now-a-days is the idea that “there is grace for you.” While this is indeed a true and powerful statement, many Christians and even church leaders have ended up watering down the Gospel with these words. We see women dressed inappropriately as they walk into church or even for a social gathering of believers, and no one opens their mouth against it, even if there are brothers in Christ present who may stumble as a result. I’m the guy who would say to someone in private, “Don’t you think someone should say something to her, so she knows what she’s doing?” The person I’m talking with would likely say something like, “Well, you don’t want to condemn people or sound critical. There is grace for her, Joel.” Blah, blah, blah, I say! I hope you’re beginning to see where I’m going with this. If you need more clarity, then read what Proverbs 27:5-6 says: “Better is open rebuke than hidden love. Faithful are the wounds of a friend; profuse are the kisses of an enemy.” And yet I rarely, if ever, see any kind of rebuke at all! And if it means protecting many people from stumbling in their ways, then why would we not want to attack sin and indecency in our lives? Otherwise we are letting the devil win in our lives!
Now don’t think this applies only to dressing immodestly; that was merely one example of ways I’ve seen the ‘Grace Card’ used to excuse people’s sins. For instance, we may see someone smoking or cursing or doing any number of things we see as wrong, and we don’t even begin to confront the issue. Instead we become passive and complacent and excuse ourselves by saying, “There is grace for them! Praise Jesus!” But let me challenge your thinking for a moment. What is the grace of God without the wrath of God? I tell you, if God’s wrath was not real, powerful and imminent, then there would be no need for grace and therefore no need for Jesus’ death on the cross. We spit off these ridiculous half-truths about how grace is sufficient and that we should just turn a blind eye at certain things, but this is not the case! We are called to be “bold as a lion” (See Proverbs 28:1) and to show open rebuke. Sin, especially in the church, should be addressed without fear or restraint.
I know in the past the “fire and brimstone” speeches have scared Christians away from talking about God’s wrathful side, but if we ignore God’s wrathful side, we ignore a part of who God is and therefore believe in a false version of God. Indeed, God MUST be wrathful, for He hates sin; and if He hates sin, He will one day do away with it. And if we are all sinful, then He must do away with us, for He is Holy. God cannot just forgive sin; if He did, without the sacrifice of Jesus, then He would be denying His character. If this were true and He allowed people to dwell with Him in eternity, He would have fellowship with darkness and would lose His holiness. In order for God to be Light and Love and remain fully Holy and perfect, He had to send His son as a propitiation for our sins. This was the only way; it is the truth that leads to life. But grace means nothing without maintaining the perspective of the reality of God’s wrathfulness that is to come. So let us stop teaching people only about the grace of God that ignores His wrathful side and remember that the wrath of God is part of the reason we come to have the fear of the Lord!